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Best Books for Emotional Intelligence

A practical emotional-intelligence shelf: the foundational framework, vulnerability, self-compassion, and turning awareness into better conversations.

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Permission to Feel
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Permission to Feel

Marc Brackett - Best modern, practical framework for naming and using emotions well.

emotion skillspractical frameworkparenting and work
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Daring Greatly
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Daring Greatly

Brené Brown - Best for the vulnerability and shame side of emotional intelligence.

vulnerabilityshame resiliencecourage
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Self-Compassion
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Self-Compassion

Kristin Neff - Best for the inner half of EQ: how you treat yourself when you fail.

self-talkresearch-backedresilience
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Crucial Conversations
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Crucial Conversations

Joseph Grenny, Kerry Patterson, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler, and Emily Gregory - Best for staying emotionally steady in exactly the moments that test you.

conflictcommunicationteams
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The Whole-Brain Child
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The Whole-Brain Child

Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson - Best if you are building emotional intelligence in a child, not just yourself.

parentingchild developmentemotion